5 Discreet Rules To Remember While Sexting(Sex Chat)

Maintain anonymity with Internet freaks.

If you are going to sext unknowns on Badoo or Wechat or wherever, don't give them your full name. Don't tell them where you are. Don't add them on your social media and Foursquare your location at some bar. Don't talk about where you work. Just exchange dirty pictures and be done with it. Cyber sex should stay that way. Unless you think you met the girl/guy of your dreams. Then you should maybe meet up.

Erase all your texts directly after the encounter.

It doesn't matter if you are hiding something from a friend or a loved one or a wifey or yourself because you're in denial: erase all your texts after the sexting. If your naughty little nuggets end up in the wrong hands, it's game over for you. Also, when friends are creeping through your pictures like, "Oh, here's a picture of that pizza we just ate and here's a picture of you swimming and here's a picture of—oh god—some other kind of watersport" you won't have to throw your phone out of a moving vehicle in shame or make up an excuse for your nude selfies. This rule goes for e-mail, Facebook, Twitter, and everything other social media and/or communication medium in existence. Why do you need to save a sext in the first place? For posterity? We're pretty sure your grandchildren won't be interested in what position you liked best.


KeepSafe

If you're looking for a simple app with basic password protection for photos and videos, check out KeepSafe. Simply type in your PIN and import photos to albums in the app. After importing photos, make sure you erase the photos from the gallery on your phone, since the app does not automatically delete them.

To access bonus features such as fake PINs, break-in alerts and customized passwords for individual albums, you can upgrade to the premium version in the app's settings.

KeepSafe is available for both iOS and Android devices.

Make up code words for certain actions and/or places.

It's possible to sext without using any words or terms that someone would immediately find offensive. You have to use your imagination and some sort of twisted Internet slang that's harder to decipher than pig latin. Or you can make up your own phrases like "I really want to juice your carrots" or "My cereal's dry and I need you to bring over milk." If you don't want to go through the trouble of making up a code, just use this guide. Some "sexting" words include: GNRN ("Get naked right now"), RUH ("Are you horny?"), cu46 ("See you for sex") and, our favorite, 8 ("Oral Sex").

Hide your face (and your tattoos).

Seriously, this should seem like common sense, but so many sext messages include nude pictures and tattoos that are easy to recognize , if you know you have a tattoo keep it away from the pictureIf you're going to do that, fine. Do it the right way and never, ever take pictures that include your face. If a picture of your naked bum shows up on your broken-hearted ex girl's weird-ass porn Tumblr, you can refute it belongs to you as long as there aren't any distinguishing marks. Like tattoos. Save your bad, highly regrettable permanent art for marriage.